"My tips are to be a kid sometimes yourself," she says. "They really need to see you play, too. Don't always give in to your kids. They still love you even though you say no. And finally, know exactly what your kids are doing. Be in their life. Know what they are watching, know what they are Googling, know what they are reading, know who their friends are, know who they are talking to. If you are in their lives they will talk to you."